I need ideas to tease my girlfriend

[Glasses]

She's been in a different state from me for a while now so we started a dom/sub thing. Since she's not here I can't physically do anything to her but I can order her to do stuff.

Chastity and denial don't seem to affect her very much and since we are new to this I'm not sure what else I could try.

My basic goal is to simply get her frustrated.

Any ideas?

[dr.d]

you could have her do edges one day and then tell her to watch porn or read something that will excite her but tell her that she can't touch her self that day , or how about having her edge and then have her rub an ice cube on her clit and nipples .
you could also tell her that she is to be nude except for a slave collar and some nipple clamps when she writes you .

and get her to talk about how she feels as she submits to you and then ask her if she would like it if you get to decide when and or if she can have an orgasm.

[Glasses]

Great response! I do however already have control over her orgasms.

[dr.d]

Great response! I do however already have control over her orgasms.

in that case , tell her she can't cum until you have had a number of orgasms , don't tell her how many you must have before she can cum, just be sure to tell her all about your orgasms and how good they felt and then have her edge for you and tell her that's all she can do for now is edge


I almost forgot , talk about her fantasies and try to tease her with one of her fantasies

[Glasses]

Thank you so much for your suggestions. I'm definitely going to try those.

If anyone else has more suggestions I'm all ears.

[selfbound]

Great response! I do however already have control over her orgasms.

in that case , tell her she can't cum until you have had a number of orgasms , don't tell her how many you must have before she can cum, just be sure to tell her all about your orgasms and how good they felt and then have her edge for you and tell her that's all she can do for now is edge


I almost forgot , talk about her fantasies and try to tease her with one of her fantasies

Great idea!
How about to use two dices and let them decide

[Timshel]

A collar is a great idea. Or perhaps something that she can wear anywhere like a choker. That way it reminds her that she is yours, and at the same time can be worn out in public without questions...

Perhaps send her a text around her lunch time asking her to go to the bathroom, take off her panties and return to work. Perhaps even a picture of them in her purse first. Or do it step by step if you can. 1.go to bathroom and reply... 2. take off your panties 3. put them in your purse and go back to work.. etc..

I suppose it depends on your phones...

Tell her what undergarments to wear each day, if you let her.

Have her e-mail you with her fantasies of you... little things go a long way...

[computergeek]

Women, especially submissive women are unique to men in that under the right conditions, there is not a time limit to which an orgasm will last before it ends. When she is allowed to have an orgasm you might experiment to how long you can have her remain in the state of orgasm.

Second, there will be plenty of people here to give wonderful erotic and perverted ideas. However if you are so lucky to have such a woman, never forget to honestly show her how much you cherish and love her.

[Glasses]

Thank you for all of the help and support everyone.