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Ben-wa balls

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Hi folks! :wave:

I'd like to buy my girlfriend some ben-wa balls. The trouble is there are so many options, and so little information to be had about this little toy. So i'm wondering if you could help me pick some.

My GF is very young and has very little experience with both t&d and toys but she seem to like it very much.

So, what do you think i should buy? Smaller? Bigger? Heavier? Lighter? Metal? Plastic? Any suggestions, experience, anything?

Thanks for any advice :-)
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I'm not very experienced, but I think it depends on the purpose, so if you want them to do what they are thought to do (training vaginal muscles), you should get metal ones, maybe 2-3 cm (1 inch?) to start with.
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Oh.

Training your pc-muscle is never a bad thing, but the intention here was for her to have some additional fun, when we walk aroud the town :evil:
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Hi

We have a set of duo-balls, my wife doesn't feel anything. The only pleasure is the fact both of you know there is something in the vagina and no-one else knows. A remote bullet vib works better :)
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Here is my two cents worth....being a female. *Smile*

Ben-wa balls ....the "fun going around town" thing is going to last about two seconds. She will only be able to hold them in for a second...and then they will drop into her panties...and it will be a total disaster.

Might I suggest something else instead.
http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/b ... ion-amante

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This egg is wonderful. It can be inserted before leaving the house and removed when you get home. You can turn it on, when ever you like and she can only .....feel. *blushing smile*
It is very intense. My favorite settings are number 4 for working up to orgasm....and number 6 or 7 when it's time to cum. *smile*

I buy all my toys from Eden Fantasy's. They are discrete and very inexpensive.

Good luck! *Smile*
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hmm, guess ben-wa balls might not be such a good idea after all...

Thanks for your input.
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:-)

If you look around (at the internet) and hear what women say about ben-wa balls, you get very different answers. There are women, how feel nothing and there are women, who love them. On the one hand there are women who love heavy metal balls, on the other hand are woman who have much trouble to hold them in.

This is a question, which is not really simple to answer.

Look a little bit around and then buy some for your girlfriend.
After the first test you know more!

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