What do women masturbate/edge to?

[Human]

Porn? What kind of porn?

[SexualChoc]

not all women use visual porn
some enjoy stories
other just have fantasies. ..

But likes are diverse as individuals.
I included this video in my subby game
http://geekysexblog.com/blog/2011/04/09 ... asha-grey/

I asked several girls if they like it it turned on most of them.
and most guys to.

basically from what I have seen most of the subbies females like watching female or even lesbian porn.

remember every person is different, so it is best to ask the lady in question, what she likes.

Nancy Friday put out a really good book called
"My Secret Garden"
http://www.amazon.com/My-Secret-Garden- ... 0671019872
that has stories about women's fantasies separated into categories.
a very stimulating read.
but it shows women are just as diverse.

there is porn made for women Or by female director's
that can also be a resource... but If working with an individual, it is best to ask them.

[Nezhul]

Same things men do. Everyone has there own tastes, so do women. They watch the same porn as men, everything from solo vanilla to hard rape and BDSM videos. Depends on the tastes.

[bookworm]

My wife uses the sexual fantasies from Nancy Friday's book "My Secret Garden."

[AngelAnna837]

Personally, i adore stories.

I have a very vivid imagination so when i read stories my mind can really run away with me. Sometimes its nice to be able to control your own visual images.

As for porn, well Thats kinda complicated for me. For along time since I was about *ahem*teen.... I tired watching vanilla soft-core type porn, but it really didn't do to much for me. Watching girls fake it just isn't my thing, and i was also very determine that i was not attracted to girls. As time went on I started to discover some more "hard core" stuff...not quite full on BDSM, but the sore of amateur vids on xhamster. These turned me on much more because i could see that it wasn't just people acting for the camera. I think Thats something i really need, to have the sense of realism other wise there is just no attraction in it for me. Then is discovered Kink.com and that was me hooked. I know a lot of people don't like the "TIE HER DOWN AND MAKE HER CUM AS MUCH A POSSIBLE" kinda porn style, but i just love it!! It was around the same time that i started to realize that there was a large attraction to woman, but looking back on it, i think i was attracted to the postion there were in, and i wish that could have been me (or more recently the one teasing them!).

I can't speak for all woman but i think that porn turns me on because i am putting myself in her place rather than a physical attraction to the woman in question. Then again...i know a hot girl when i see one!! LOL.

But of course there is nothing to beat a live teasing session my Dom, by far the hottest thing to edge to ;) i could watch videos or read stories for hours and not get as turned on as when he teases me *giggles*


Hope thats help answer your question!

A xxx

[Human]

, i think i was attracted to the postion there were in, and i wish that could have been me (or more recently the one teasing them!).

I can't speak for all woman but i think that porn turns me on because i am putting myself in her place rather than a physical attraction to the woman in question. Then again...i know a hot girl when i see one!! LOL.

Interesting, so you are not turned on by gay (man on man) porn)?

[AngelAnna837]

No, I really don't get any enjoyment out of it at all...

The thought of 2 men is still strange ground for me.

Don't get me wrong i have lot of gay friends and i love them to pieces, but what they do behind closed doors in nothing I want to be part of.

I am a real old fashioned girl like that. i think that is where my dislike of femdom porn comes in as well. my concept of men is they should be the strong ones (and no i am not saying i am not for female equality and all that, i just like to be treated like a lady) so seeing men being very submissive is again a strange area for me. Being teased is fine but anything deeper than that is still something I am still learning about and exploring. I am not saying i am ever going to be a Domme, Thats just not me, but exploring its defiantly alot of fun! :)

[bobroberts]

depends on the woman, but i'd say that women show more of a preference for the written word than men. probably not because of any sort of sexual difference, but i think women are gendered by our culture (western civ) to feel that their sexuality is more complex than male and less visual. just a guess. damn it jim, i'm a historian, not a psychologist!

[Human]

Don't get me wrong i have lot of gay friends and i love them to pieces, but what they do behind closed doors in nothing I want to be part of.

I am a real old fashioned girl like that. i think that is where my dislike of femdom porn comes in as well. my concept of men is they should be the strong ones

Thats quite narrow minded of you.

Its interesting that you put in qualifiers like "Dont get me worng" "I'm all for, its just.." "I'm old fashioned" In one swoop you have dissed the entire submissive male community by implying you think there is something wrong with them.

You would be what one would call a "closet bigot".

An open minded person would have just said " Gay porn just isnt my thing..I'm not turned on by femdom".

[AngelAnna837]

Don't get me wrong i have lot of gay friends and i love them to pieces, but what they do behind closed doors in nothing I want to be part of.

I am a real old fashioned girl like that. i think that is where my dislike of femdom porn comes in as well. my concept of men is they should be the strong ones

Thats quite narrow minded of you.

Its interesting that you put in qualifiers like "Dont get me worng" "I'm all for, its just.." "I'm old fashioned" In one swoop you have dissed the entire submissive male community by implying you think there is something wrong with them.

You would be what one would call a "closet bigot".

An open minded person would have just said " Gay porn just isnt my thing..I'm not turned on by femdom".

I'm actually quite offend by that.

I was giving my personal opinion, I have no problems at all with anything that anyone else enjoys and I would fight to the death for there freedom to do it, I just don't enjoy it.

and please don't label me, if there one one thing on this planet i cant stand its being told "you are this" or "you are a..."

I was just trying to give some incite to your question, next time i will keep it to myself

A

[Human]

Insight appreciated. And I posted that to give you an insight into yourself. I'm sure you dont think of yourself that way. But, as they say, if the shoe fits ...

[AngelAnna837]

Well you'll forgive me if i disregard it seeing as you have absolutely no idea about me, having never talked to me save this thread.....

I will leave you to the reams of opinions of all the other girl that replied to your thread.....


*tumble weed*

[Human]

You've been pretty consistently rude and inconsiderate of *everybody*

Oh is that sooooooo? Everybody huh? Ok

[Nezhul]

Human, actually I don't think you should react like that. I actually think that submissive men are strange thing too. Man should be the stronger part of the relationship, he should be the kind that women feel relaxed and safe with. I don't really think that men who go as deep into submission as to give most of the freedom (and with it - responsibility of choice) to a women - are the right kind.
I don't place labels, that's just how I think. You all can do whatever you want in your personal life, it's just that if I see a relationship where a man is completely under the heel of his women I'd find it strange and a bit unnatural. That'd be definitely not my style. I actually agree with Anna here.

What I don't like about your post is that you get PERSONAL. Even though I may feel about relationship above, or gays as unnatural and strange, I don't get personal. I can easyly be a friend to a gay if he's a good person, that won't change my view of his sexual life, but this doesn't claim HIM bad. People who argue by becoming personal without a reason are weak. Anna expressed her opinion, you may agree with it or not, but you MUST respect it. You may argue with the opinion, but by insulting a person that expressed it you just do it wrong way. She doesn't have anything to do with the opinion she has. It's not like that's a rare opinion too. If you ask 100 people, at least 90 will say that femdom is a perversion. Will you insult all of them? I recommend you just accept the opinion. We don't have a majority rule here, so even if the best share of society thinks it's wrong, it doesn't actually make the thing wrong AS IS, it's just not for everyone. Insulting a person who doesn't share your view on a subject is PLAIN STUPID.

[Human]

If you ask 100 people, at least 90 will say that femdom is a perversion. Will you insult all of them?

Depends. Just so Anna doesnt think I picked on her, yes I think you are a bit of a bigot too according to your post. Calling someone strange or unnatural is 100% OK in my book. Pervert is also OK(depends), Its when people say "men/xyz group SHOULD be like ..." that it goes into intolerant territory.

Basically, calling someone a pervert only means they are not "average" or following the norm. Saying that someone SHOULD be like something, is a much harsher statement. You are implying they are WRONG in their proclivities.

This just touched a nerve.