Road to hands free orgasm

[TacticalSalad]

Hello there,

This is my introduction thread and I'll be posting my progress here as well.
I've been lurking on and off for a while now and never really made an account because I felt embarrassed.
I still do feel kind of embarrassed as I've never really been on websites like this before, but I finally gave in and made an account.

Now, masturbation is pretty much a part of my daily routine. I stroke it at least once or twice a day but it just wasn't interesting anymore. That's when I started exploring to gain more pleasure from masturbating, That's when I found cockhero about a year ago and it's made masturbation really nice again, especially when I cum after an hour long session of extreme difficulty. It's really satisfying.

However, even cockhero isn't much of a challenge anymore since I've beaten pretty much all of them and played my favorites over and over and over and over again.

That's when I got back to this website again and started exploring again, I found something called HFO and it was really interesting. The idea is amazing and from what people say it's one of the most enjoyable orgasms you can possible get.
That's exactly what I'm looking for so I've set my mind to achieving it and I'm really excited about it. ( I literally can not stop thinking about it all day. )

I set some rules for myself, I'm not allowed to cum at all until I've cum without using my hands. ( this is a real big issue for me because honestly, masturbation is like an addiction to me at this point. ) To set the bar even higher, when I wake upI will masturbate until the edge of cumming and just stop, twice. I will also do this before I go to sleep, So I will be edging 4 times a day. Also, I'm keeping a stopwatch running since the last time I came.

I'm trying to orgasm hands-free by using the "because" series by Nikki Fatale ( Also found that on this forum ). and I have to see, as much as I love the idea it just doesn't seem to work for me. I never believed in hypnosis but I REALLY want this to work and I've been really positive and excited about it. I was laying naked on bed yesterday for 3 hours listening to episodes 1 to 3 and I didn't even get an erection. ( I did really like it though. ) I'm not quitting yet and I will re-attempt this everyday until I can cum.
does anyone have hints/tips on hypnosis for me? I would greatly appreciate it since it has 0 effect on me. Like I said before, I'm totally positive about it and want it to work, but it doesn't. I follow all her instructions without question or hesitation, but my brain always stays active. I always keep breathing deep and slowly since that really calms me down. but the triggers/hypnoses doesn't do anything for me, not even an erection on the third session.
I'm about to try the 4th session "bliss" as people say that's the most exciting one, this is the one I've been excited about all day and couldn't stop thinking about so I can't wait to try this out.

That's it, sorry for the wall of text. I'm looking forward to spend some time here for a while and get more comfortable as it was a huge challenge to even write this since I'm so embarrassed about it.

Thanks for reading!

[hypnosubdave]

Hi Tactical Salad,
there is a good article on achieving a deep trance state, which in my experience is needed to achieve HFO through hypnosis at inraptured:
http://www.inraptured.net/social/articl ... per-trance

At the site you can also find other erotic hypnotists with HFO erotic sessions, such as Mistress Carol and Isabella Valentine.
i'm not associated to the sit, but am a member and enjoy interacting with the Femdom hypnotists there.

I would also say, keep listening to the recordings to become conditioned to the voices and commands and don't try to force it, give it time, relax and enjoy and it will happen.

[les]

                     


                Your trying too hard.

Nikki is an excellent hypnotist but you should start with her simpler stuff first.     

This chart does a good job of telling you what comes before what.     

                     


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Nikki is my favorite major hypnodomme, and I've sampled a number of them. The philosophy she brings to her entire repertoire is what impresses me most, more so than her considerable skill. She's very sex-positive and believes in the consent and care of the submissive, rather than some dommes whose personae cater to submissives that seek abuse. More of a D/pet than a D/slave mentality. So hopefully you're looking to feel a little warm and fuzzy, and not be degraded.

As for recommendations, I've heard the "Because" series takes a lot of work, but is very rewarding. You're supposed to repeat each one until the suggestions really sink in before moving on, like 15-20 times. She uses trigger words from them in a lot of other sessions, too. Some recordings I do like are the ones that include her narrating some fantasy scenario, often with suggestions to masturbate during them: Hypnotease Erotic BJ, Pretend, Strawberry Jam, Satin Angels and The Contest. My favorites of her's would be Submission To Hypnosis 1 and especially 2.

                     


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[TacticalSalad]

Thanks for the replies! I saved the image on nikki's list and I'll be using it to learn more.

Also thanks for the link on how to reach a deeper state of trance, I'll definitely be reading through it!

Again.. Thanks!

As for my progress; I was edging for around 2 hours and had a ruined orgasm, I got even more aroused when I had it and kept stroking even faster and reached a full orgasm so I already failed on day 2. I realised that I'm not good at edging and have been doing some research on how to properly do it. I'm currently using the webtease: https://milovana.com/webteases/showflash.php?id=26516 and I've been edging so much better at the first attempt already. I'm glad I found it.

This will be my last post for today as I will be doing some more edging later and then I'll get a good hypno session in before I head to sleep.

see you tomorrow!

[Weabols]

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[simpso]

Hands free orgasms arnt that bad once you figure out the trick to doing them.

Like yourself i started off with the hypno hands free audios.
Listened to Jackpot loads of times and never managed to cum.
Finally i watched a vido of a guy showing you what to do and i pulled it off the same day.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=267762511

Lay on your back and think of a sexy thoughts imagne there is a sexy woman or guy over you who is talking dirty and running there hands over your cock.
Now the crucial part is to FEEL your cock being touched. I liken it to the feeling of waves going through it.

This process usually takes me about 20 - 30 mins to cum and i will go hard to soft to hard in that time. The trick is to just continue laying there thinking im going to cum from this and carry on wit the fantasy of the sexy naked person over you giving you a hand job or sucking you or what ever.

After a while sy 15 mins youll notice a buz star appearing in your groin which will slowly build.
Get the fantasy babe to pick up the ace and before you know it youll have an amazing orgasm.

Orgasms so good you can bearly breathe. Last time i had one it lasted close to a min from build up to cum.

Last thing after youve pulled it off a few times you can play with making yourself edge. Get to the edge with your fantasy handjob and then get the babe so slow down.
Because its all in your head it can go on aslong as you want.

Good luck.

[book_guy]

This chart does a good job of telling you what comes before what.

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Wow! Jeepers ... thanks ... but ... wow! That's a LOT!

[TacticalSalad]

Well it's been a little while since I last posted.

I haven't had any progress, I guess hypnosis isn't really for me ( Since I've always been strictly against hypnosis my whole life. )
Whilst doing this I have grown an interest in edging and denial though, so I'll be experimenting with that for a while.

[jackstock]

Try laying completely still on your back. Stay there for about 40 mins without moving so your body goes into paralysis. It feels like your body is asleep but your mind is awake. Use your mind to do your work in that state. Youll find you have more mind power, and that you might also feel strong submissive fantasy effect because it feels like you are unable to move.

Or try this: do pushups with your cock touching floor every time you go down. Push until you cant do any more, really push it. When you collapse youll have an uncontrollable orgasm a few seconds later