Question

[elisa]

I'm kneeling before my mistress/goddess.
Knees splayed.
Balls shaved clean.
Thankful to be allowed to stroke my cock.
And she says:-
"Tell me who decides if you come or not?"

"And why?"

Well the answer to the first part is obvious.

But I would like a good answer to the second part that is not:-

"Because you are my goddess/mistress".

I truely want to tell her why.

[Kalil]

That takes away the fun of making your own answer though...

[elisa]

What is your answer.

[Kalil]

It's not about my answer, its about making your own answer. It's a test of how creative you can be.

[elisa]

Do you have one answer or does your answer depend on whim?

I ask you again.
What is your answer.

[SexualChoc]

Don't overthink it to much....
but I honestly can not help you
because I have NO idea who your dominate is
and each has their own style.

Just give a guess... you will find out quickly enough if you were wrong

[Stafford]

if i gave you an answer it would be my answer and you Goddess wants your answer
so sorry can't help
if you have no answer maybe you have no Cum for your Goddess

[davefrancis89]

While I concur with everyone else that the answer must be your own...

Just to help you out a bit, there are lots of reasons behind orgasm denial - and as has been implied by everyone else, everyones is usually unique in one way or the other. Some do it because they feel they do not deserve to cum and must earn it; some as a symbol of their submission; others because they have placed their sexual selves in the hands of their partners and therefore no longer have the right to that choice; or it could be as simple as they know their partners get a kick out of tormenting them, and have surrendered it to make them happy.

Have a think about the nature of your relationship with your Mistress, and why you submit to here - is it because you enjoy making her happy? Is it because you crave humiliation? Is it because the lack of control gives you some sort of release?

If this is the main part of your submission this question is clearly very important for your Mistress as it shows her how well you understand the nature of the relationship. So, as said already, it has to come from you, but it may help to think about why you are submitting and why your Mistress wants you to submit - that should steer you to the answer.

[elisa]

Thank you for taking the time to reply.
But I would still like to hear some of your individual answers.

Personally I take the Mistress/Goddess paradigm in a religious sense.

Born catholic but soon wearying of the vengeful christian god, I'm now a bit of a pagan.

And who were our pagan gods.

Our full hipped women.

I'm a little bit odd.

I've accepted that for a long time.

In fact i'd be insulted to be called normal.

Replies please.

Confessions please.