Why is it so hard?

[cum slut]

Has anybody ever had any success in actually finiding a Mistress online? I know that there has been an influx of people making these ridiculous one page teases, so obvioulsy that just irritates the women they are actually trying to appeal to. But, without sounding harsh, these people are clearly clueless. Although so am I apparently as I have had no more success than them, so my my question is this: What is the best way to find an online Mistress?

I have tried here, and even joined the website Fetlife, but so far, it just seems that unless you are willing to 'tribute' a Mistress, they are unwilling to communicate with you. Any thoughts, comments or tips would be most appreciated. I am really trying to get more into this 'Lifestyle' and would love to find someone to help steer me on that journey!

[SlutBoy88]

I'll have to agree with you, it is certainly hard to find a Mistress. I'd been looking for one for over a year but finally found my Goddess on CollarMe.com. Free site to join and while there are a lot of dommes that require tribute, there are those few that just simply want a sub. And that's what I found, so I know you can too! Just make sure you include pictures on your profile and really take the time to complete your profile, otherwise no woman will give you the time of day. But if you put in the effort, I think you just might find what you're looking for there!

[les]

To be perfectly honest if you are looking for a Dom or Domme.
You must be interesting and willing to make an effort.

[Handcuffed]

Try Second Life. There is a huge BDSM community, and even slave auctions (you are the commodity)!

[freaau]

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