Things that happen to you after contacting a Domme

[pete_ger]

Hello there,

I'm one of Jana's subs, so I'm horny and not allowed to touch myself. Thus I was surfing around, reading, watching, chatting, to at least satisfy my mind.

So while hanging out I came accross a Profile of a Domme, in which she asks for a slave with 'no limits'. I find the concept of 'no limits' ludicrous, absurd, but the rest of the profile was well written, and it existed over a year. So I wrote her a lengthy Message, writing about my point of view concerning the 'no limits', and to be honest trying to pick up a discussion. Read her point of view, have a healthy discussion, and maybe change her mind. Aaaaanyways ....

So I send her that Message, which was about three times as big as this topic here, and five minutes later I get a message back:

Spoiler: show

"you have credit card? i require tribute"

somehow it made me laugh, you can't even pick up a discussion or friendly chat without them trying to scam you. And when you think about it, it's sad. But that response was so absurd, couldn't help myself and giggle.

[les]

Sometimes the say they want CC details to confirm you aren't a minor.

oops bye bye money.

[Nezhul]

Don't see anything strange about that. If you didn't know, some of them use this releationship as a WORK to earn money, not for fun at all. Do you work for free as a demonstration? I don't think so. Or what if you really are a minor? They reply you something, answer a question even REMOTELY connected with sex, and they go to jail in some countries.

I really don't know what's strange about that did you find.

[les]

I think he was surprised,
I would/was not,

I was meerly expressing caution with online contacts..
Lots of scammers out there
Not all Nigerian some English or Russian as well.

[Nezhul]

there are always scammers, and always dangers. That's not the reason to lock your door, seal your window and never come out, right?

[slutty1]

That was funny, thanks for sharing pete_ger. Not a surprising response, maybe, but funny. But that's OK... if you write a longish, thoughtful email and you get a reply in which the other person can't be bothered to use an article, I think laughter is exactly the right response. :)

[dolphkuellar]

As slutty1 said! Thanks for sharing, pete_ger. Made me laugh :)

[dix]

Pro Domme in wanting money shocker.

Someone contact Rebekah Brooks...

Dix.

[supersupersuper]

Don't see anything strange about that. If you didn't know, some of them use this releationship as a WORK to earn money, not for fun at all. Do you work for free as a demonstration? I don't think so.

Frankly I think those people should stay off relationship websites. It's the equivalent of a prostitute making a profile on match.com: dishonest and a little bit skeevey. People looking for real relationships shouldn't have to wade through all the scammers, and yes if you post a profile on a dating site looking to make money without indicating as much on your profile you are a scammer no matter how you may view yourself, just to try and find the real people. BDSM personals sites, this may comes as a shock to you, are not the same as Pro Domme listings.

[shortstraw]

It's not uncommon for dommes to ask for some kind of tribute to prove that you're serious about being sub and not just looking for free jerk-off material. It sort of makes sense as I imagine they'd otherwise get flooded by wannabes. The problem, of course, is that it is often impossible to tell the women who are genuinely searching for a sub from those who are only interested in your wallet.

Femdom personals seem to be one big clusterfuck of fakes, scammers, creepers, sociopaths and the occasional decent person.