mistressamber wrote: ↑Tue Jan 16, 2024 1:49 am
In my opinion, this website is the perfect place to discover new kinks and fetishes. And if the more extreme fetishes, like findom and blackmail, can be experienced in a low risk environment, that's even better. Otherwise the only option is to deep dive into the real thing to find out.
If this tease was high risk, very strict, "if you don't pay, I *will* tell everyone", then I'd agree with you. But that's not the case here (even though that fear needs to be created to get the full effect).
I understand your thoughts and i do see milovana as a perfect website to discover new kinks and fetishes. though i dont agree with you in the safety aspect. in my opinion, as far as the tease is within milovana, it should be safe and good to play. but if now any person makes themselves the safety keeper, i dont find that safe at all!
For me or other users, you are just another user, whom i would not trust with private information, or would you with anybody? would you do the tease and be not afraid, that for example your emails are used and sold secretly for advertisement to bigger companies?
So even if you say, that you wont do bad things with the information, nobody can be shure. and i dont talk about the blackmail, but about if the private information may be used and archived for 3rd parties. So i dont think of your tease as fitting and secure, even if you say so.
mistressamber wrote: ↑Tue Jan 16, 2024 1:49 am
I don't assume everyone takes the warning seriously, that's why this part is said at the beginning (and the end) as well:
"If you feel uncomfortable at the end of the tease, you can PM me."
People who PM me (or email me, you can see my email at the end of a normal playthrough), can resolve this with me in private messages.
This is now another thing, that is not optimal. Why should the process to "close or end the tease" be made more difficult, so i need to PM you, so that you clear my personal data? In my opinion, this goes beyond normal teases and is annoying. Because if i forget, my data will be still with "a random person".
Having now warnings in your updated tease wont clear the data of the users, that played the tease and had not the warning. And a tease here should not have me to actively work for it, to have my data be cleared of your archives. I dont support it and dont know why such a tease is allowed here, in this form. If done correctly from the beginning, many of those problems might not occur.