When enough is enough?
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Re: When enough is enough?
I know what you mean with the lack of realism, but you do make a few errors of judgment.
First of all the "smack your balls 250 times with your fist" part is not unrealistic, but just impossible. You can't "smack" with your fist. You can punch with your fist of smack with your hand. Another flaw in this is the lack of intensity and speed instructions. Smack how hard? Smack how many times per minute? I can take 250 smacks. I can't take 250 hard smacks @ 1 per second.
The second error is calling people sick. First of all only the author has control over the text, not the people viewing it. Second, the author is probably not sick, just stupid(or drunk ). He or she obviously doesn't know what CBT feels like.
Next time you see stuff like this in a tease, just make a topic about the tease(or reply in an existing one) and share your concerns with the author. You could also send him or her a PM directly. Don't give up on Milovana! Instead help to make it better.
First of all the "smack your balls 250 times with your fist" part is not unrealistic, but just impossible. You can't "smack" with your fist. You can punch with your fist of smack with your hand. Another flaw in this is the lack of intensity and speed instructions. Smack how hard? Smack how many times per minute? I can take 250 smacks. I can't take 250 hard smacks @ 1 per second.
The second error is calling people sick. First of all only the author has control over the text, not the people viewing it. Second, the author is probably not sick, just stupid(or drunk ). He or she obviously doesn't know what CBT feels like.
Next time you see stuff like this in a tease, just make a topic about the tease(or reply in an existing one) and share your concerns with the author. You could also send him or her a PM directly. Don't give up on Milovana! Instead help to make it better.
Re: When enough is enough?
I know you're just venting, but I feel the need to iterate the fact that "You get what you pay for..."
I fully sympathize with the fact that many teases are laced with squicks or silly commands like that. Teases are really hit and miss in regards to that.
The person who made it probably wouldn't actually "smack themselves 250 times" (I hope not at least), just that they think it would be hot that a Domme would demand such an outrageous thing. Maybe its a way of raising some sort of ephemeral stakes to the point where failure is not an option, thus adding a sense of ultimate pressure to perform. If it actually came to failure point, they'd do nothing, and probably imagine their mistress calling them scum/failures/etc. At least I hope so...
If I come to something like that, and the rest of the tease is good? I just ignore that. Yeah, its less immersive, but eh.... no sense in wasting everything else. The instructions look decent otherwise on that one you linked.
If the whole thing is just loaded with stuff that disgusts us, then there is nothing for us to do except sigh and move on (and try to wash out the taste in our brains with porn, booze, etc.). Tis the nature of the internet...
I don't like the masochism side of T&D either. I don't think of "teasing" as hurting.... just a type of "pseudo-frustration".
I recommend checking out the Strangetown series if you haven't already. Those are some of the best teases on here.
I fully sympathize with the fact that many teases are laced with squicks or silly commands like that. Teases are really hit and miss in regards to that.
The person who made it probably wouldn't actually "smack themselves 250 times" (I hope not at least), just that they think it would be hot that a Domme would demand such an outrageous thing. Maybe its a way of raising some sort of ephemeral stakes to the point where failure is not an option, thus adding a sense of ultimate pressure to perform. If it actually came to failure point, they'd do nothing, and probably imagine their mistress calling them scum/failures/etc. At least I hope so...
If I come to something like that, and the rest of the tease is good? I just ignore that. Yeah, its less immersive, but eh.... no sense in wasting everything else. The instructions look decent otherwise on that one you linked.
If the whole thing is just loaded with stuff that disgusts us, then there is nothing for us to do except sigh and move on (and try to wash out the taste in our brains with porn, booze, etc.). Tis the nature of the internet...
I don't like the masochism side of T&D either. I don't think of "teasing" as hurting.... just a type of "pseudo-frustration".
I recommend checking out the Strangetown series if you haven't already. Those are some of the best teases on here.
Re: When enough is enough?
whatI am positive now that I deal with insane people...whom chastise me for I don't enjoy 250 fists in my balls.
Edit: You do realize he meant (as a joke no less) to exploit the wording of the command to basically do nothing to yourself?
Settle.
Re: When enough is enough?
You "realized" incorrectly. Try reading the post carefully instead of jumping to conclusions.All I realized was the 250 punches in my balls.
Re: When enough is enough?
Do you like pie? I like lemon pie.
Re: When enough is enough?
Oh yes, especially on a bun with lots of butter. MMM-mmm!
Re: When enough is enough?
What about 249 smacks? Hmmm...
Edit: I'm gonna try it! The full 250!
Edit2: 247.... OW... 248.... OW... 249... OW.... 25- DANG I CONT TAKE IT ANYMOOOOOORE
Serious topic is not serious. I fell for it till his 4th post, but I thought it was obvious past that point....
Edit: I'm gonna try it! The full 250!
Edit2: 247.... OW... 248.... OW... 249... OW.... 25- DANG I CONT TAKE IT ANYMOOOOOORE
Serious topic is not serious. I fell for it till his 4th post, but I thought it was obvious past that point....
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Re: When enough is enough?
Troll.
This conversation can no longer serve any purpose.
This conversation can no longer serve any purpose.
Re: When enough is enough?
Well, you could try...y'know, not doing it....
Not everyone is okay with sticking a dildo up their ass, so they just don't do it. Same with half the things in the teases on this site. Just deal with it and move on to a different tease.
Not everyone is okay with sticking a dildo up their ass, so they just don't do it. Same with half the things in the teases on this site. Just deal with it and move on to a different tease.
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Re: When enough is enough?
I smell a dannywanker
Re: When enough is enough?
Yes.Missyboy wrote: So it;s ok if I am called a Troll then?,,by a pussy ?..whom has no idea what 250 hits to the testicles means?..
Was that ok?
Yes, and I hope you keep your promise about never posting again.Missyboy wrote: If you say yes,I will never post in this forum again,and I'll accept I am an idiot.
Was that ok to insult me?
It's getting very, very old... enough feeding the troll, now starve.
Funden.
Re: When enough is enough?
Okay Missyboy, you've made me post for only the second time here, so this is going to be important. I don't like to see conflict and misunderstanding go on for longer than it has to.
The tease meant for that to be a deterrant to cumming, rather than just saying "don't you dare cum." Nobody expects you to actually do that, the author just wants you to not cum.
This argument is primarily the fault of Missyboy, due to a simple misunderstanding, but it was furthered in scale by all those who went against him in his line of thinking, rather than trying to clear things up. If we could attempt civility, we can have a much better community, and better content as a result.
In the hope that peace will come
Zefu
The tease meant for that to be a deterrant to cumming, rather than just saying "don't you dare cum." Nobody expects you to actually do that, the author just wants you to not cum.
This argument is primarily the fault of Missyboy, due to a simple misunderstanding, but it was furthered in scale by all those who went against him in his line of thinking, rather than trying to clear things up. If we could attempt civility, we can have a much better community, and better content as a result.
In the hope that peace will come
Zefu
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Re: When enough is enough?
Missyboy has the exact, -exact- same posting style, and reaction to the word "troll" as notorious, multiple-times-banned troll "dannywanker". He is probably not even honestly complaining about the tease so much as flaming people for his own amusement.Zefu wrote:Okay Missyboy, you've made me post for only the second time here, so this is going to be important. I don't like to see conflict and misunderstanding go on for longer than it has to.
The tease meant for that to be a deterrant to cumming, rather than just saying "don't you dare cum." Nobody expects you to actually do that, the author just wants you to not cum.
This argument is primarily the fault of Missyboy, due to a simple misunderstanding, but it was furthered in scale by all those who went against him in his line of thinking, rather than trying to clear things up. If we could attempt civility, we can have a much better community, and better content as a result.
In the hope that peace will come
Zefu
Re: When enough is enough?
http://wiki.lspace.org/wiki/Multiple_exclamation_marksMissyboy wrote:Stop diverting the topic,Graduate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You broke your promise, btw. You did post again even though I clearly answered "Yes." to your question.
Damn, I just can't resist to reply...
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