Am I Bi?

[malibu900]

Recently I have noticed that I am getting more and more into tranny porn. I guess it started with futanari. Specifically Kami Tora futanari. But I have noticed that my porn searches have become more oriented to dickgirls and transexuals. It is making me wonder if I am a little bi.

I never thought I would be asking this question. I have never been attracted to men in the slightest. Honestly if I were a girl I would definitely be lesbian. But for some reason I am developing a strong attraction to feminine bodies with dicks. And the bigger the dick the better.

My tastes are such that the tranny must be exactly like a girl, especially a feminine voice, except for the big cock, or I get kind of turned off.

And now I have a fantasy of being gangbanged by at least 10 futa girls with massive cocks... being forced to take their huge dicks up my ass and swallow their huge loads... My dick got hard just writing that sentence...

I dunno... Maybe it's just a fetish, maybe I'm beginning to discover the bi side of myself. Any thoughts or comments?

Also, are there any other hetero guys out there who feel the same way?

[Subbylocked]

Hey,

Yes I feel the same way, i am curious. On the one hand i do not think "Wow he is attractive" when i see a good looking guy on the streets. I do not think about sex or his naked body.
On the other hand I really like shemales, too. I would even suck a real man´s dick if a mistress instructed me to do so. But I rather think it´s part of the devotion and humiliation....

To sum it up, I love shemales, I would suck male dicks or have sex with them but only if i was forced by a master or mistress. I do not feel ATTRACTED to them.
Maybe i was able to help you a little

[nullset]

Short answer, no.
Long answer:
Everyone is at least a little attracted to their own sex. We have to be otherwise seeing ourselves naked would be enough of a turn off to prevent us from having sex. Sexual orientation doesn't break down cleanly into straight/bi/gay, it's more of a spectrum. Instead of black/white it's many different shades of gray (but not 50, because that's crappy Twilight fanfic). Some people are only interested in the opposite sex, except for one or two members of the same sex that do it for them, some would happily fuck/get fucked by anyone, some have never and will never have the slightest interest in the opposite sex, and someone fits any other combination of liking chicks/dudes you could imagine. It all get even more complicated when you throw gender identity issues into the mix, but I don't know enough about that to not sound like an idiot.

As for being turned on by Trans women/futanari, there's a good scientific reason for that. This Video is a lecture by a scientist who studied what gets men and women horny. The short version of why futa porn gets you hot is that men, regardless of orientation, get aroused by seeing 4 body parts: chests (esp. boobs for straight men), asses, feet, and penises. So a trans/futa gives you everything you're looking for in one package. In fact, gay men are almost entirely uninterested in trans women.

tl;dr: Liking trans women or futanari doesn't make you bi. It's typically a straight male fetish. Watch the video I linked for a better explanation.

[Bondageman]

A liking for transsexual porn alone doesn’t mean that you are bisexual. You state yourself that you are not at all attracted to men, ergo you are not bisexual.

I’m pretty much in the same boat as you on this one. I myself enjoy dickgirl porn too and have the same sorts of fantasies as you describe but much like yourself - for me a feminine body and voice is an absolute must. Everything except the dick. If the transsexual looks even slightly like a man then there is no attraction there.

Your liking for Kami Tora and illustrated futa work (which I also share) is down to the fact that in illustrated images the transsexual can be drawn to have a flawless feminine form but with that little bit extra. In reality it’s that little bit more difficult to find that perfect combination, hence I find a lot of TS porn a total turn off, namely when the TS model looks masculine which is quite often the case.

Likewise subbylocked’s willingness to actually suck a man’s cock (which I do not share even though I am generally submissive) most likely stems from the humiliation and devotion factor (as he says himself) and not necessarily any bisexual tendencies.

[Tury]

^ they said it all, so I'll just say you should check out some of the artwork by "Dmitrys", sounds right up your alley.

[SexualChoc]

well on this site,
the question is more... HOW bisexual are you??
many councilors think that everyone has some fantasies.. at some point in their life
this is very normal
just for fun I am posting some tests... you can take to see exactly how bisexual you are
note: I have NO idea if these tests are.. "valid" or research driven.. but they are being posted just for amusement!
http://www.okcupid.com/tests/the-am-i-b ... rious-test
http://www.gurl.com/2011/06/28/am-i-bi- ... y-quizzes/
there is also a gay/ homosexuality test
http://www.gay-test.com/

the best way to look at is: how much is it.. just fantasize?
and what would I like to really/do try?
and of course how much have you done?

hope this helps!

edit: I don't mind sharing I got a 47% gay on the gay test
My wifes said I am to out of touch with the latest trends!

[malibu900]

Thanks to everyone for your replies. I think you all covered it fairly well and I feel I have a better understanding of the situation. And thanks Nullset for the link. It was very informative and really explained the why behind it all. And yeah, Tury, Dmitrys is definitely an artist i will enjoy.

[Tsme]

If only everyone went through this process of understanding sexuality deeper, society would be a lot less confused about it all, i bet there are millions of men and women completely confused about it all, the havoc it must play with their lives.

The above commenters captured it all very nicely.

[jackstock]

Nope. Straight.
Bottom line is that you're into women and women shapes, voices, etc.
If you're not into actual men then I think this is obvious

[bananafishiex]

I am in pretty much the exact same boat, and after worrying about the same question for a while, I came to the conclusion that I just don't think it is a question worth worrying about.

What are the consequences if the answer is yes? There are none - you still are attracted generally to women, and also to feminine shemales.

Everyone has their own unique sexuality ... that's part of what makes it so fun to explore your own.

[Slutastic]

Question: Would you engage in sexual activity with the best looking transsexual you have ever seen in the world? (forced or unforced)

If the answer is yes then your answer is yes.

Its just your choice in men is a very small percentage of men - you like very feminine men.
You probably like certain females also: eg: tall, small, thin, bbw etc
So saying your straight doesn't mean you fancy all females - you have a small percentage that you prefer.

[frakker2]

That's just perfectly normal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p-A8GvUehq4

You're just overdoing porn.

[davefrancis89]

In reality categories such as 'bisexual', or 'homosexual' are simple inventions - in truth humans are just sexual. You are attracted to what you as a specific individual are attracted to - embrace it, and don't feel a need to label it.

All excessive definitions carry are the assumption of further shared traits with others who may only share one simple like or dislike - be your own person and be 'yousexual'; no-one in the world has the exact same sexuality as you do.

[davefrancis89]

and now bothering to read the above I realise I've repeated what a lot of other people have already said......