I did it for Milovana

[aimauanca]

Over two evenings I abandoned two orgasms. Fun to watch it dribbling out like that.
I did it for milovana.
Would you declare your devotion like that?

[Nezhul]

I guess in eather case not to the site....

[state of denial]

Now I'm sure this isn't the right forum for this, but since were talking about it. What is the difference between abandoned, ruined and minimized orgasms?

One; I write a lot of stories and I'd like to think I know what I am refering to.

Two; I'd like to know what she does to me and what I do to myself on occasion.

SoD

[sleepy_rob]

I personally count:

Ruined: Just get over the brink of an orgasm and then no touching and try to minimise cock movement of any kind while you cum. This includes twitching.

Abandoned: The same as ruined but you can let your cock do what it wants

Minimised: Just get over the brink then can be light, teasing touches or touches in just one place As long as its frustrating really.

[aimauanca]

You can see abandoning as an anxiety reducer.
A normal wank sees you doing as many edges as possible to keep it going as long as possible. But this creates anxiety, as you well know that sooner or later you're going to misjudge an adge and go over the top. So you have to be careful that when you feel that you've got to this point, you don't lose the orgasm.
So to reduce anxiety, you just decide from the outset that if you go over the top, you'll just abandon it.
Try it and see.

[ponderhk]

Abandonment: when you let your spermies die a cold, careless, forgotten death rather than giving them somewhere nice, moist and warm to end out their days. This is why cum-eating is caring!

[bookworm]

You might enjoy listening to this?

http://onania.org/asm/post/670