Having troubles!

[uteasemeipleaseu]

I am very into T&D, but currently do not have a partner who is interested (my wife has lost all interest in it)

I have been teasing myself, and have on occasion been teased by others, and sometimes I do quite well, but eventually, I just get over it, and give in (sometimes after a day, sometimes after a couple of weeks). I have also found that although the women controlling me online purport to be advocates of control and denial, they get sick of waiting long before I do, and want me to come well before I have had enough teasing.

I am currently going through some of the webteases to try to get back into things, and might start looking for some online control, but if I cant get my wife to agree, I may start looking for someone to do it in person if I can ever think of how.

In the meantime, what have people found the best way to find someone to control them, who is willing to work with them?

Thanks!

[SexualChoc]

after you taked to your wife about it
you could look up Mistress Jay
who is an active member of this site.

[uteasemeipleaseu]

Thanks, do you have a link to Mistress Jay? I cant seem to find here in the members list?

[uteasemeipleaseu]

Never mind, found her under Miss Jay, thanks!

[uteasemeipleaseu]

Still having troubles! lol Ever since coming back to this site, I have cum every single night in the shower after checking out the teases. I really need to set aside some time to actually do some of the teases to get back into the swing of things!