A small rant about BBC

[kyrex90]

Sorry guys but I need to make a small rant about the recent webteases. There's too much BBC fetish propaganda going on lately and I don't appreciate it one bit. It's stupid and racist and disgusting. I have nothing against black people and I don't care one bit if you or anyone else prefers black dicks over white, asian or any other ethnicity but I care if you talk shit about other ethnicities and make racial slurs. Stop this shit.

[Tooster]

Completely agree with your sentiment and let me add this excerpt from wikipedia:

The belief that penis size varies according to race is not supported by scientific evidence. A 2005 study reported that "there is no scientific background to support the alleged 'oversized' penis in black people".

A recent 2016 study of 248 Korean men identified the average erect penis length to be 13.53 cm (5.33 in). A study of 115 men from Nigeria found that the average flaccid stretched penis length of Nigerian males is 13.37 cm (5.26 inches) long, which is near identical to the worldwide average, stretched flaccid penis length of 13.24 cm (5.21 inches) and average erect penis length of 13.12 cm (5.17 inches). A 2015 systematic review of 15,521 men found "no indications of differences in racial variability", and stated that it was not possible to draw any conclusions about size and race from the available literature and that further research needed to be conducted.

According to Aaron Spitz, a urologist, many websites and studies promoting variation of penis size between races use unscientific methods of collecting information and often ignore contradictory evidence. He concludes that "when you really take a good look at the naked data, there’s not a whole lot there [showing racial variation in penis size]."

I don't want to kinkshame anyone and don't think the content on here should be censored or restricted in any way. You can jerk off to what you want to. But I think its important that you are aware of the reality behind the fetish and don't let your personal mindset be influenced by some racist bullshit made up to alienate and antagonize people of color

[spaisin]

Hah, one of these days again..

"I don't want to kinkshame anyone, but being a fag is gay. So sayeth the 2021 bible"
"I know I publicly praised a BBC JOI tease couple years ago, but the 2021 bible says that black people are offended by being referred to as having huge shlongs."

If a word offends you, try not to visit sites that literally categorize stuff with "verbal-humiliation".

And a dictionary quote... if curing one's sexuality was possible by throwing da science at them, how many trans people do you think the patriarchy would have allowed to remain body dysmorphic?

[Xardas]

... Like, I don't care for verbal humiliation as a fetish, but you do realize that this is exactly that, right? There are a ton of similar generalizations in teases, because it feeds into verbal humiliation themes. Or what, are you going to take every single generalization in humiliation teases 100% seriously and straight and complain if it is "unfair"? Cause at that point might as well delete all content with verbal humiliation, except, you know, half the site is based on that kink. You don't like it? Don't read teases with BBC in them, you probably won't like it. Oh, except for the fact that you, in fact, liked a couple of them in the past. Lemme guess, you at some point looked up if there's any truth to the the whole BBC thing, it shocked you that it's just another porn-industry bullcrap, and now you overcompensate by trying to tell others what they can and can't enjoy, so you feel less guilty for liking it before. Yeah, that's not our problem mate, so good luck on your crusade. You'll need it. :P

[anavialon]

Sorry guys but I need to make a small rant about the recent webteases. There's too much BBC fetish propaganda going on lately and I don't appreciate it one bit. It's stupid and racist and disgusting. I have nothing against black people and I don't care one bit if you or anyone else prefers black dicks over white, asian or any other ethnicity but I care if you talk shit about other ethnicities and make racial slurs. Stop this shit.

I don't think there's enough "BBC fetish propaganda" on this site personally! I've seen like 4 or so since December of last year, one a month is not that much in comparison to all other topics on here. BBC fetish propaganda is a fun, harmless fetish like femdom, forced bi, anal play, cuckolding etc. It's a form of verbal humiliation with an added layer of power dynamics to it. Those who I have spoken to about this fetish know it's just a fantasy to them, something that gets them off. It can be apart of a submissive mindset, but at the end of play everyone goes back to understanding were all equal and everyone is valid.

The fact you need to make a thread about it makes me think you do have a problem with it or you are insecure about something. Genuinely, are you okay? Has it made you think differently about yourself? If there is content on the internet you don't like, don't read or engage with it, let others enjoy it if they want to. There's no need to kink shame anyone or attempt to make people feel self-aware about it. Just note it exists and move on with your life :)

[someone43]

I would like to cite, #GFC and suggest you read other teases Ken and Karen. Once everything that offends anyone is censored or removed, there will be nothing left.

Regards and #GFSF

[fapnip]

Once everything that offends anyone is censored or removed, there will be nothing left.

[addNtoX]

Complaining about fetish themes on a site which is entirely based around just that...fetish themes..

[ostermanblue2]

Sorry guys but I need to make a small rant about the recent webteases. There's too much BBC fetish propaganda going on lately and I don't appreciate it one bit. It's stupid and racist and disgusting. I have nothing against black people and I don't care one bit if you or anyone else prefers black dicks over white, asian or any other ethnicity but I care if you talk shit about other ethnicities and make racial slurs. Stop this shit.

I generally agree, and Tooster's post is also on point. I don't think that the BBC fetish is inherently bad, it's a taboo kink and...this shit is complicated. But we need to have a conversation about how to enjoy taboo kinks without doing harm. It's strange that people don't see anything wrong with racist stuff being posted with zero caveats or tagging of extreme content, it's just, here you go, porn's all the same right?

I find this to be an excellent summary of sexual racism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8X7MbdlyWTQ

A lot of responses in this thread seem to be going in the direction of whataboutism, devil's advocate, or complaining about wokeness. Nobody likes being called racist, but sorry to say, we're all a little racist and paradoxically, knowing that about ourselves is the only way to go about being non-racist. If you've noticed your reaction to this thread and topic is defensive, now's probably a good time to do a little inventory of your values. Why is it bad for someone to raise their hand and complain that they don't like sexual racism? Since when is 2020-2021 the first time racism was bad? Would it really be harmful to have a grownup conversation about sexual racism? Is there any particular website or context in which it's just fine and normal to be openly racist, sort of like smoking socially?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ds03wc6PjIk

[someone43]

But we need to have a conversation about how to enjoy taboo kinks without doing harm.

No, we don't. Words are not harm, especially in this context. Move onto another tease if a certain one isn't your cup of tea. This isn't an opportunity for social justice warriors to come out and band together. The is an adult kink site, no one is forced to be here.

The only conversation I'd entertain is using the proper flags / categories when making a tease, but no censoring because a kink makes someone uncomfortable.

[ostermanblue2]

This isn't an opportunity for social justice warriors to come out and band together.

I repeat: Maybe now's a good time to do an inventory of your values.

[someone43]

This isn't an opportunity for social justice warriors to come out and band together.

I repeat: Maybe now's a good time to do an inventory of your values.

Hi Ken,

I am aware of my values and am confident enough not to be bothered (or harmed) by words. Now is a good time for you to take stock in the reality not everyone has the same values and beliefs. Taking up a cause becaue you're offended on behalf of another group or are too fragile to accept others have different views is narrow minded and foolish. This is a public, international, adult kink site. As with any other non-mandatory affiliation, you have the option of participation: viewing or not viewing teases or even whether or not you remain a member (of the I will remind you, free site).

Take personal responsibility and make the site what you want to experience through publishing or supporting teases and kinks of which you are interested. The unmitigated horseshit for a member of this site who is presumably kinky themselves, to sit there attempting to censor or shame others for their kinks is ridiculous. There's enough room on this site for everyone to coexist and enjoy what they want without sjw bullshit.

Is there any particular website or context in which it's just fine and normal to be openly racist, sort of like smoking socially?

Yes, on kink sites. Here are additional kinks that are frowned on in polite company once you leave kink sites : misogyny, misandry, misanthropy, smoking, self-harm, harm to others, blackmail, adultury, verbal humiliation... List goes on...

It is all about context. If this was about something in person in a region where it was unacceptable or your home, that is where the conversation exists. The reality is the person raising the issue is essentially complaining about water when he's choosing to go in someone else's pool where he's been welcomed to join. He can leave or enjoy other aspects of the site. To be clear I am ambivalent towards the race kink, I just don't bother reading them.

[Xardas]

Gotta love the "you don't agree with me pushing my politics, therefore you are amoral and you should take a self-inspection in shame" aspect. So absolutely confident, without even the remotest doubt that you might be the one in the wrong. As Someone43 above me so nicely put it, kinks fetishize a lot of things that would be frowned upon, and rightful so, in polite society. It all works, because fetishes are ultimately fantasies and roleplay. Just like calling a sub a "slave" isn't an actual support for real life slavery. What makes race, or specifically being black (cause none of you have complained about the opposite of BBC in this thread), special? The answer is, absolutely nothing. Fantasies and kinks are fine, as long as the practitioners know the limits irl and as long as featuring it doesn't get the site in legal hot water. I want all fetish-target, including all races, to have the same standard: fetish is fine, legitimate wish to harm is not. YOU are the ones who make it all about race, and more specifically, black people. You are the racists, not us.

Now making posts about educating people how some stuff in porn is not real, sure, that's a good thing. More knowledge and better informed kinksters is always nice. But you can't do that by belittling or being hostile to people. Because that will result in threads like this, where instead of people learning interesting facts, will lash out at each other.

[mrman]

HA HA HA This post is golden
I dont know which one is worse the one crying , or the twat looking up black cocks on wiki lol
This is a place where men come to wank off, To stuff.
Such short minded prudish, people, shouldt be a member of this site, just because a whingy litttle bitch finds one mans tease a turn off, ruin it for every one else who likes " stupid and racist and disgusting "
£10 bet
I bet everyone a tenner that they still wanked off to the tease content.

[spaisin]

I find this to be an excellent summary of sexual racism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8X7MbdlyWTQ

Thank you! That was.. hilarious.

I can't possibly go through all of it, but one great "main takeaway":
- we all need to go on tinder dates with people we don't find attractive, just because they're from a different racial group.
- That makes the two black girls in my town pretty damn popular, the ratio should be around 1:10000. But I guess the whiteys shouldn't worry about the notch counts of their partners..
- also, soo, that would mean the whiteys tinders would be an exercise in "I'm actively looking for black chicks to fuck" ... how exactly is that different from a BBC fetish?