Feedback: O Control - Holding the Edge

[teased2pain]

Ms. Julie,
thank You much for that practice.
My day 3 without cumming and edging and holding over and over.
You´re right. This great feeling is better than orgasm.
I could make my edging technique lots better than before.
I´m suffering and feel most frustrated in my life at the moment.
Thank You so much for showing and guiding me my to place.
Please do another one like this perhaps with Your voice hearable.
btw.
I was naughty.
The last 2 scenes I let out, only edging without orgasm reward.
I felt I didn´t have earned an orgasm yet.
So please forgive me and punish myself if You decide to´of course.
I will obey.
T2P

[Ms. Julie]

You're welcome. Did I allow a reward first time around on that tease? I don't remember. That's so unlike me if I did.

[teased2pain]

Thank You Ms. Julie.
So I have to go through this another time.
Please forgive me, if I were wrong.
T2P

[teased2pain]

OK, I did it again.
And Yes I´m feeling most frustrated now.
Thx for torturing and conditioning/developping me further.
I more than prefer that "feeling" now and I understand, that an orgasm could not be an option.
The end was: I was too late, because there was a timer.
So I putted my cock back like You told me.
I could swear... ah forget it, You were right.
I accept any punishment for my wrong statement, if favored.
Thank You for these lessons.
btw. yesterday I did the "No twitch" training before, and it really saved my life in that tease.
I learned to relax my Kegel muscles.
Instinctively I did it before. But not as effective.
Relaxing is the key not convulsing.
You are so experienced. I learned a lot. Thank You much for teaching.
T2P

[Ms. Julie]

Yes I think no-twitch is necessary for edge holding. With experience you can stay on the plateau near orgasm for a very long time. I love to do this myself. I let the feeling slowly build and build until I do have an amazing orgasm. However, I think you should stop short and rarely allow yourself to go to the end. More fun I think.

[teased2pain]

You are right, Ms. Julie.
By "end", did You mean orgasm?
I truly don´t want to give in to orgasm in the future.
I accept this great frustrating feeling.
Thanks to Your training.
T2P

[Ms. Julie]

Yes I meant orgasm.

[teased2pain]

Great Tip to stop short. Thx
Late in bed I tried to hold plateau for long time without watching these fine pics and instructions.
I thought of Your slow build orgasm beneath me when edging and denying myself
It felt as I really couldnt cum when relaxing my whole body but had a good pace.
I made it longer than half an hour without reaching an orgasm.
Lucky me put his cock back in pants then
My balls hurt the whole day today and showed me my place.
Perhaps I´m a little bit sensitive and not experienced enough.
Think of trying this prostate milking tease You did to loose a little bit of pressure inside there.
What do You think?
Don´t want this orgasm happen since red/green task on Sunday morning.
T2P

[Ms. Julie]

teased2pain,

Sounds perfect! Yes definitely do prostate massage. Just don't let too much out.

[teased2pain]

Ok, decided to do Your very first tease for today - controllevel 1.
Oh my God - survived it anywhere.
I put my cock back into pants
And yes I´m sure I would get rock hard even if being allowed to smell only Your pretty feet.
Thats my wish.
Don´t know if I could stand them without going over that edge immediately.
Thx for the great tease.
Please do another one on conditioning to Your sweet feet. Please please
Tomorrow I plan trying prostate cum training lesson to less that cruel pressure.
T2P

[ToTheEdge]

Ms. Julie,

I have some questions about your teases related to something I want to do for myself. I'm a big fan of edging and the idea of T&D but in doing teases on Milovana for some time I honestly cheat and most often finish at the end of them. If instructed to ruin I most often do but as you've mentioned in previous thread posts it's difficult to achieve a pleasureless ruin. I guess in this way I'm a little bit of a casual user but also lacking in some discipline as well.

And this is where the question comes in. I think from edging and a steady masturbation habit my stamina with my girlfriend is not where I'd like it to be when we have sex. In reading about your teases and your comments in the forums you seem like you have a history of training your boyfriends to put your pleasure first and to not cum under any circumstance without your say so and despite you really teasing the hell out of them in various ways. I understand that this is where most of the fun happens in T&D after all

So I've been thinking I'd like to start doing your teases and committing myself to saving my orgasms for my girlfriend and using your teases as a way to train myself for better endurance and was wondering which ones you'd recommend for maximum stamina training. I accept and am sure will enjoy the frustration that will undoubtedly come as a byproduct and love the idea of using the kink of T&D as a motivator in between sessions with the girlfriend but want to stick to teases that will increase mind over body control rather than decrease. The no twitch training seems like the likeliest candidate to start and I know I'll need plenty of practice there as not 'priming the pump' has always been difficult for me. Any suggestions would be super appreciated!

Thanks in advance,
ToTheEdge

[Ms. Julie]

ToTheEdge,

If you want to increase stamina, probably the cock hero videos are a good place to start. My teases are more about torturing you than building stamina. Because most of them are at your own pace they are technically easy to do from a physical perspective, it's more about mental will-power of not giving in to orgasm over and over.

No twitch training is a very useful skill for developing stamina though. I recommend doing cock hero with no twitch.

[ToTheEdge]

Ms. Julie,

Thank you for the advice, I will look into the cock hero teases and continue my no twitch training. When I first posted, however, I had really only read the no twitch 'tease' (by your own admission, not a tease exactly) and some of your forum posts, etc. Between my post and your reply i've done Frenzy and RedGreen both and I'm totally hooked . So yeah, lots of stroking in my future and lots of frustration as well. I'll leave feedback for the teases on the appropriate threads but thank you for your teases and putting us strokers in our proper place.

[Brickmover]

I can't control myself to stop exercising. The prostate toy makes me feel really good. I think if I stop exercising. That would die