:::stop:::

[Disley]

:::stop:::

[SexualChoc]

I am not sure if yo
are referring to a tease... or something else

Just remember Safe, Sane, Consensual rules

stop when you think it breaks one of these rules.

[Mistressemma123]

its ok slave i was never going to actually make you cut it off. i wanted to scare you for pissing me off. we had an agreement from weeks ago that you would do another show this weekend but you apparently once again are not able to fulfill this. you now know how far i could go when you piss me off. youd better not do it again or maybe next time i might just make you do it.

[SissyNicole]

This is the type of stuff that makes me ashamed to call myself a man. For god sakes people there is a way to play in the BDSM community, and there is going too far.

To the Disley, if anyone tells you to cut off any part of your body you should probably stay away from them, and really shouldn't post it in the forums. That is just really stupid.

To Mistressemma123, do you really think he would have done it anyway? Obviously no, he just wants you to stick around because it is difficult to find a Domme in the community.

Getting sick and tired of seeing stupid shit like this, and after today, seeing this has made me snap.

It's time to grow up people!

[J4mes]

Yeah that is going to far
Don't cut it off tho
One thing I will add is that it is not difficult to find a domme in my experience anyway in fact I get more offers than I can handle, but finding one that will respect you and your limits is a different matter.

Also wrong forum

[curiousSK]

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[someone43]

Maybe they are just having fun role playing.
Is this the line where we start criticizing other people's fetishes?

Let them enjoy their fantasy, try and relax going back to your own wackiness.

[Nezhul]

What, you still afraid of a haircut?!

[Banquo]

Maybe they are just having fun role playing.
Is this the line where we start criticizing other people's fetishes?

Let them enjoy their fantasy, try and relax going back to your own wackiness.

Couldn't agree more, I don't think Disley was ever going to mutilate himself.

[tBone]

I dont think this is going far enough IMO.

[Evals]

If you carry through with it, you should at least get a Darwin Award for having voluntarily removed yourself from the gene pool.

[Mistressemma123]

i would like to clarify for everyone else that i was never going to actually make him cut his cock off. i was using a form of mindgames to introduce some fear. some people may find it messed up that i even suggested it to him but i always knew what i was doing and made sure that it definitely wasnt going to happen even by accident.

[SexualChoc]

It is difficult to judge

some kinks...
auto-asphyxiation..
being turned on by the THOUGHT of being an eunuch
bestiality...
the high taboo ones...

are they alright
as long as it falls within safe, sane and consensual...????
And
is it only the subby who decides what safe, sane and consensual is?

slippery question
and One I feel best left as a question.

[Disley]

Guys, I speak now as a normal person and not a sub. I perfectly got the part. I absolutely knew that she was not going to make me do it. I'm not stupid nor crazy and definitely Emma's not either. We were playing and I accepted the humiliation of telling everybody (as she wanted me to do) that I had to beg her somehow. I know.......she could have chosen a different topic of the beg.......but that it was. I agree in closing the thread for the sake of all the young or unexperienced people around.

[Banquo]

I mean this whole concept raises the question of safety in BDSM relationships. Especially online ones. Firstly I can kind of see the point of the people who say this is dangerous even as a kind of mind play. When people give control over to someone else there is a possibility that in that submissive state they will do anything to please the other partner, ones mind kind of switches off. However that is not to say that this state of "subspace" means that personal responsibility goes out of the window. Yesterday I was so far into submission I could barely stand, it felt wonderful. I don't know how I could ever thank my Mistress for putting me there. And believe me I would have done anything for her in that state. But and this is a big BUT, I would not have done anything to harm myself, or beyond the limits and checks we have agreed on.

I don't want to presume what Emma and Disley were up to, but mind games can be a big turn on. I'm guessing this was the kind of silly threat a parent would make to a child "if you keep making silly faces it will stay that way" "or if you keep playing with yourself you will go blind."
I'm sure they both knew they were never going to go through with it. And it's their kink, so let them enjoy it. I can't say it turns me on to think about that kind of thing but we are all different.

Banquo