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my slave Disley who did the webcam show for me a while back has disobeyed me. due to him annoying me i instructed him to do another show and the dates i told him he would do it and he claimed that he was busy on every single one i told him. i didnt believe him and he pissed me off for this. i finally have a new date established but i feel he deserves punished.

has anyone got any ideas for ways i should punish him?
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What led you to not believe him? far be it for me to say, but does this really deserve a punishment. everyone has lives and commitments in the outside world too.

As for punishment Ideas. a punishment should be something he doesn't like, only you and he could know the things that would really push the right corrective buttons.

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Banquo wrote:What led you to not believe him? far be it for me to say, but does this really deserve a punishment. everyone has lives and commitments in the outside world too.

As for punishment Ideas. a punishment should be something he doesn't like, only you and he could know the things that would really push the right corrective buttons.

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That's what I privately suggested Emma, in a sm relationship you need to keep an eye on the equilibrium between the actors. Being in charge means respecting this equilibrium too.

But a mistress doesn't need a reason to punish his slave though. So...not trying to correct her in this way. Only her can know what's good for him, as you said.
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Re: ideas for punishment

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Several of my subbies have vanished for a time
or gotten to busy

I have lost some of my favorite subbies because of failure to stay in touch
one thing I have learned... just be happy they are back with you

the time apart is actually a good punishment.

If your a really good Dom/Domme just missing your instructions is often the best punishment a subby can get.
also I would be sure such things as.. company vacation, funeral, ilnness, or other real life things are an issue, they can happen to anyone.


Usually if I see a subby I have not seen ina long time the first thing I do is Forced orgasms and then promise another long denial period.
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Give the sub a taste of their own meds, when they are ready be busy too.

But other than that I agree life gets in the way sometimes.
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I just had the greatest pleasure of assisting Mistress Emma to the most exciting punishment I've personally seen. I can tell you folks that I'm really impressed, but to that beautiful Mistress (Emma) the pleasure to tell you how things took place. I'm still a bit shocked, enjoying some highlights of it. Unfortunately this time no public, no cam :(

And personal consideration, I esteem so much Emma for what she demonstrated to me tonight. Because her relationship with her slave seems to be so respectful that now I understand how he could afford one year of chastity for her. Congrats for what you are.

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Oh, of course. To the slave who gave us this pleasure tonight....have a good night too, ahah, hope ull be able to sleep after this. But sincerly thank you, you cute.
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