I wanted to bump this thread and reassert that Queen Valerie has a number of tasks related to teasing, denial, and orgasm control. If you are excited by the idea of being controlled over a long period of time, you may want to dip your toes in the pool. After all, what's the worst that could happen? ...

Day 7 Tuesday 4th April Exciting day, if the end of the days of denial is also bittersweet :) The initial teasing strokes were ~very~ slow, and I did the five minutes all at once. This was very much not the case for the firm, wet handjob -- this had me near the edge almost immediately and it took me...

Day 6 Monday 3rd April Happy Metronome Monday ... making Mondays fun again! I was certain I was not going to be able to handle this much stroking at this pace, but surprised myself by getting through on the first try -- with the help of a somewhat ridiculous amount of lube to keep everything nice an...

Day 5 Sunday 2nd April The final count for day four was 51 edges ... between that and the teasing at the start and end of the day I'd expect it made for around 3.5 - 4 hours of teasing over the course of the day. Today I am feeling both pleasantly worn out and ... desperate for more of anything. The...

Day 4 Saturday 1st April An all-day task seemed like it was worthy of more than one update, so I jotted down my thoughts a couple of times today: Morning: I love the idea of this task! Already Miss Jay was on my mind at the end of day three, as I made sure to have lube ready on my nightstand and did...

Day 3 Friday 31st March No touching is always a great test of willpower and a great journey of frustration. The evening of day two was already difficult, and the evening of day three is free for lots of viewing sexy pictures, thinking sexy thoughts, and ... thinking about touching. Especially thinki...

Day 2 Thursday 30th March A surprisingly devilish task (although maybe not surprising given the source :)). I opted for the bath task, as Miss Jay stated a preference for it. The long tease of the tub filling was a lot of fun, including the gradual sensation of the waterline rising to cover my balls...

Day 1- Wednesday 29th March I have managed the tasks for day one and am impressed at how many times I can be taken from desperate to touch, to desperate for a break, all within a half hour. Feeling grateful, well teased, and eager to see what day two has in store! More touching is allowed and I am h...

It would be an absolute pleasure to sign up and find out what you have in store for us all. Also welcome back, it is great to see you having fun here once more!

I believe the active ingredient (for cbt purposes) is menthol, so you might want to start with something featuring that... looks like Deep Heat and Ben Gay run around 8-10% so that might make a good starting point. I have no idea if Methyl Salicylate is relevant or not, but it is also a common ingre...

The infinite battery metaphor actually works pretty good from the submissive side too :) The endless, unrelenting rush is not an unpleasant one. Calling back to the original post I think I've been into denial and chastity longer than I've known that they existed as a fetish, so it may just be wired ...

I tried a cb-3000 but found it was not workable for me. The fit wasn't right and the design of the cage caused skin problems for me if I wore it for more than a day. I do not like having skin problems down there :) I upgraded to a Mature Metal Jailbird, using my cb-3000 experiences to help figure ou...

Just wanted to poke my head in and say that the Hysterical Literature links on the last page are from an art project by photographer Clayton Cubitt, and the full series can be viewed (with context and what looks like more written commentary) over here: http://hystericalliterature.com/about/ . Also c...

AliceInBondageLand wrote:I might be clueless... but what does cei stand for?

It is not obvious but I believe "cum eating instructions", similar to JOI for "jack (jerk?) off instructions". It's a style of video where someone talks at the camera giving direction on how to, well, as described.

This program is old, but might do what you want:

http://www.virmst.eu/stp.htm

The web page is a little lean, but there is documentation in the zip file. The core is setting periods of time at specific metronome rates, along with descriptive text.