How to approach my wife

[funboy]

Thank you in advance,

Lately my wife and I have been getting more adventurous in bed and it is great. We found my love for anal stimulation with pressure on the bud and even a small toy but we have plateaued there. I am a very shy and reserved person and having trouble with going further with it and expressing my desire to explore my bum further. Are there any good resources here or on the internets that we could look into together? Any suggestions welcome and again thank you!

[MasterMike]

Hey funboy,
I would start with communicating your desires to her and scouting her feelings. Maybe she has some desires you could fulfill too. If you get more into anal just remember to start slow -both figuratively and literally- and remember to use enough lube as not to be dry.

The male prostate can be felt with a correctly shaped toy. You can try looking for resources in different erotica web sites. They all deliver quite discreet too. For a final encouragement I would like to say that there is nothing wrong with a male being interested in a little bit of anal stimulation or a good rim job. Talking relieves shyness.