Official "I'm Looking For A Domme, Dom or sub" Thread

by **Deathbyteacup** » Fri Aug 31, 2012 5:09 pm

There's someone on here called teacup? Awesome lol, I just picked it because I think it's a cool quote from a movie :lol:

by **Snoopy76** » Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:16 am

And I assumed Teacup had already made you hers!

Welcome to Milo.

Snoopy x

by **simpso** » Tue Sep 04, 2012 7:37 pm

Hi im a straight male with a girlfriend who is looking for a mistress to control me.
Im a 27 year old male.

Anyone want to take me on?

by **sexylama** » Wed Sep 05, 2012 11:22 pm

I'm looking for a sub. Gender doesn't matter. (Though I'm not much into cross-dressers or sissies, so if you need that, I'm not your dom. Sorry.) I do not want someone to grovel. I HATE anything that sounds complaining. You CHOOSE to do this. If you want to have an equal play relationship, I'm for that, but if you want me to control you, let me control you. You can inform me of when you're uncomfortable, and wish to stop, but don't whine and still want to do it. My mind just doesn't comprehend that behavior.

I don't punish, but I am getting more of a "scolding" thing, so there's that if you're a bad boy or girl.

I also don't do pain. If you want pain, I will allow it, bu I am not responsible for it.

I also don't do denial. I will tease and delay, but you will be allowed to cum before going to bed that night. I might be into denial if someone can handle it without making me feel guilty about it. Hence, read above about complaining.

I do enjoy being in control, but I have a very soft spot (that is also easily annoyed if you're the one that came in knowing what you signed up for), so that's why I don't want complaining.

I am sexylama and am in chat quite a bit on days I'm on there, but there are days in between I'm not there at all. If we work out, I'll give you my email so we can do that while I'm not in chat.

I also don't do humiliation.

Any gear or toy play depends on what you have in hand.

by **whatchapwn** » Thu Sep 06, 2012 1:39 am

Hello Everyone

I am a 23 year old from the US. I am your average guy for the most part but with a dark kinky side. I am a submissive male who has been actively learning as much as I can about D/s relationships to try and prepare myself for taking the next step of having a real relationship. I am taking it slow because I am shy so I am trying to start online first and take it easy. I have tried several times and nothing seems to gel. Maybe this time around some magic will happen.

About Me

As I previously said I am a pretty average guy. I am going to school and working and having fun doing so. Hopefully I will graduate this year. I love music and want to be involved with it for a living. I am also an avid sports fan and watch tons of football. I am a huge science nerd who loves most of all reading about the universe. I like to think I have a good mixture of all stereotypes in me so I can fit in almost anywhere. As far as my physical stats go I am on the heavier side but I am actively working everyday to lose the weight. Been working out pretty much everyday now for 3 months and controlling portions and I have already dropped 35-40 pounds.

What I Am Looking For

This is a loaded topic, especially from the submissive point of view because while both parties have to compromise and work together to make it work, I am still the submissive. In other words while I still have what would be my ideal condition (I think everyone does this) I realize that that just won't be the case. I am a realist so this doesn't bother me.

I would like to hopefully find a Mistress that will take it slow and easy with me. I know this can be a painful process but I would hope to get to actually know someone before jumping right into sending pictures and videos on a whim. I understand that online relationships are hard to maintain especially without using a webcam or at least pictures but taking it easy I think would be better.

Also because I am still fairly new to this and haven't had too many experiences I am going to struggle at times and I hope you can realize that. I will have my down falls of times where I check out and get scared but I know I want this and will work hard to do so to make it happen.

I am finally coming to terms that I love to please and serve others and not just in this portion of my life. It carries over to my job and my friends. I go out of my way to do a good job and be a good friend and that is how I have always been and helping others and being as friendly as possible comes naturally. This must come as no surprise that my personal life is starting to go along the same way.

Likes & Limits

As far as likes and dislikes I go I am still not 100% sure on what my likes are because some I haven't actually experienced. I might have an inclination to what I like but won't know until I give some things a try. Some of those things might be:

Pain
CBT
Humiliation
T&D
Chastity/Orgasm Control
Anal/Pegging

When it comes to limits this is going to be a strict list. There are some things like that might be on the previous list that I might come to find out I am not fond of but would be alright to push those limits sometimes. This list is one I would not like to be pushed and hope that it is respected.

Blood
Scat
Public
Needles/Extreme Pain

One of my problems I am currently facing is I am still living at home for various circumstances that are outside of my control. I hope to move out once again in a few months but this obviously limits the time I can spend online doing something. This also means I can't exactly gather a bunch of toys/clothes because my room is kind of a free reign so I wouldn't feel too comfortable with getting anything elaborate.

Well that is about it and I hope that this ad comes across as honest and genuine and I look forward to hearing some responses. Thank you for taking the time to read it.

by **footboy** » Thu Sep 06, 2012 2:51 pm

We are a sadomasochist couple but we are submissive too if you want.
We would like to get a Misstress for email dares and teasing. We can do sexual things too.

The male slave:
20 years old straight.
About 190 cms tall 75 kg with an athletic body. Short brown hair, blue eyes. His cock is 20 cm long.

Likes: sex, extreme pain, nipple/cock/ball torture, foot torture, electro-torture, edging, orgasm denial, forced orgasm, female shoes, worship feet, tickling, ice, candles.
Dislikes( punishments): ruined orgasm, fire, bellybutton torture, anal, breath play, enema.
Limits: public, photos, cum eating, pee, poo, needles, gay.

The female slave:
21 years old bisexual.

She is 168 centimetres tall, she has
got long red hair and blue eyes. Her
bra cups are D, and she is slim. She's
shaved everywhere. She has got a
tounge piercing. Her feet mesures are
38 (Eu). She has got french manicure
and pedicure. Her asshole and pussy
are tight.

Likes: sex, pain, nipple/breast/pussy
torture, foot torture, electro-torture,
edging, ice, hot wax, suck
cock, give me a footjob, spanking,
toothpaste, wedgies, anal, bondage,
cum swallow,
a little humiliate.
Dislikes(punishments): needles, ruined orgasm, fire,
tickling, nettles.
Limits: public, photos, anything with
toilet (pee, poo).

Our toys list:

household items
spanking items ( cane, whip, riding
crop)
clothpins, alligator clamps
sandpaper
uncooked rice
my cruel girlfriend
toothpaste, icyhot, hot sauce
ice cubes
electro sex kit (TENS unit)
electric wartenberg wheel
9 volt battery
rope
thumbtacks
weights (0,1 kg - 2 kg)
DIY chastity device with spikes
Kali‘s Teeth Chastity Device
2 dildo(one metal)
2 handcuffs
1 toe cuff
butt plug
enema kit
anal hook with a 5cm ball at the
end.
Spreader bar.
Used female socks, panties and
pantyhose (only as gag).
collar
Chains
3 vibrators
feathers
candles
and some other things.

If you intrested in to be our Mistress send here a pm, or email: catcasino16 [at] gmail [dot] com

by **sexylama** » Fri Sep 07, 2012 5:38 pm

I posted before but I think it might be better to post my base rules.
Things will be added as we get to know each other and I get ideas. :whistle:

:). No touching. No porn. If you're in Milo chat don't click on links unless safe for work.

I'll let you know when you can get aroused by touching and or porn. And no the two won't always happen together. ;)

I think I'll be ok with denial, BUT if you want denial, NEVER ask to cum as I'm too soft to say no (though I will make you wait for up to an hour or so). So only ask if you can cum if you're expecting delay rather than denial. If you truly want denial you'll never ask... Just wait for me to say when.

by **FireChild** » Wed Sep 12, 2012 7:02 pm

I am looking for someone to take control of my libido. Dictate when, where, how, how much, how long, if I orgasm or not. I'm not looking for them to take control over anything else in my life. Semi-regular basis. Preferably male. Online is just dandy for me. If left to my own devices, I won't touch myself at all. I'm weird like that. I enjoy kink. I miss being controlled in this way. It's been over a year since I've had regular tease and denial. I have AIM and Skype. I don't do public, and work is off limits.

That's pretty much all I can think of off the top of my head.

Best wishes! :-D

by **sub-os** » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:46 pm

Hi to all perverts here :)

I'm normal pervert guy who's into kinky stuff, mostly playing games, doing / giving tasks that sort of thing.
U can see my likes/dislikes on my profile page.

What i'm looking for is female with similar interests as mine, she can be switch, sub, dom i don't really care, for communication, maybe some online play, task giving / receiving and such things .

I'm CET+1 zone 'n i would prefer to meet someone in similar time zone.

About me ?
Well what can i say. Almost typical male creature. Love women, beer 'n football :) Music metal/ rock mostly. DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES CONTACT ME IF U'RE JUSTIN ( ANY OF THEM ) FAN :P lol ..
I consider myself talkative , average looking . 188 tall, 81 kg , brown hair, eyes that change color ( sometimes ) :)

that's all from me.

I know this will be hard, i'm looking for female ( pref switch , from europe ) in the ocean of male subs . well it's like a lottery , if u don't play u'll never win.

bye

by **tymydsub** » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:34 pm

Hello everyone! I am looking for a Dominant that is willing to help me develop my routine as a little 24/7 submissive. I am not pleading for someone to tease me. The meaning behind me looking for a Dominant right now is so that I can learn more. If you are willing and able to aid me and help with examples/ideas please feel free to contact me. Hopefully we can be friends. :)

by **puppyslave** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:06 am

Hello everyone

I am a 20yo male sub looking for a Domme or even a Master to own me and train me to be their dirty little slut. I enjoy being verbally and sexually humiliated, I don't have any toys just a few pair of panties like a sissy boi. I also have a little cuckold fetish that why I enjoy the humiliation like small penis humiliation and such but I also enjoy bondage and other stuff. I do have yahoo so I can use that to chat as well. My limits are scat piss and pain and I do not have cam at the moment but can do some pics. Anyone that's interested please message me, I look forward to meeting you

by **Sissy lily** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:18 am

Hello I am a sissy looking for a Master to take over my training to make me into a sissy. I enjoy being put in my place like a sissy bitch and trained to be a sissy slut.
Any questions pm me.

by **DarkKnight1756** » Mon Oct 01, 2012 8:14 pm

Looking for a webcam slut! :lol:

I don't do Public Humiliation, Scat, blood or long term denial
Preferably females but males are welcome too.
PM me if interested. :innocent:

by **alexadams** » Wed Oct 03, 2012 8:56 am

Hi,

i am a 22 year old male, looking for an online female domme. I am new to milovana, and hope to experience some new things. Also i am straight.

English is not my first language, but i am quite good speaking and writing it.

-Alex

by **Lazures** » Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:22 pm

I'm a 20 year old Male,my interests are written in my profile,that being said,I'm looking for a domme.However,my submission is not something I'm going to hand over to everyone,I'd like to talk with the Mistress-to-be,if we both find ourselves worthy of being in a D/s relationship I'm even okay for a long term one.

I'm a very confident and powerful man in my normal life,but I do have..this weakness.I finally decided to give in,I experienced a D/s relationship of 2 years.I am trained,however I hold my collar right now.If you are in for a challenge,I'm the man.

That aside,I'm not waiting everything from you of course.I know how this game works.A submissive has to have his own charms,and if we agree that we are both good people and compatible,I'll make sure that I'm going to be the number one sub you ever had.

Edit : Unfortunately for now I can only do online play,however,I'll start going abroad soon since my I've started earning some good money.